New Month New Method

Once again, I am not sure where my time is being spent, which is becoming an ever more frequent occurrence.  Overall, things are good, so I simply accept the loss of time.  In fact, it's not really lost, it's just differently used.

A new month begins today, and with it will come a new method for me.  I hope to have a different approach to time.  With that intention came immediate implementation.  This morning, after dropping my Son at camp, I went for a fabulous run in the city.  I wasn't so fast, but done was such a great feeling! 

I feel so much better in so many ways when I exercise.  This month, I want it to be so high on my priority list.  Here's to hoping that I can succeed in this method.     

Taking Time

Get it where and when you can....  I had to work yesterday, though I had taken the day off.  Accordingly, today I took time after my hair appointment to wander around Wayland Square on the East Side of Providence.  It is among my favorite places!  Today's wandering included a chosen luxury of a new Alex and Ani bangle, the lobster.  I received a coupon for a free coffee next door at the newly opened Teas and Javas.  I relaxed there for a bit while I enjoyed my treat.  This break was enough to reenergize me for the rest of what will be a busy, and relatively hectic day.    

Today's luxury choice

I have been in transition regarding my personal care products. I never have been too concerned about these products. However, as I age, I am finding that product is critical, for my hair and skin. Also, makeup makes all the difference now, as never before.  Recently, I notices a Blue Mercury store nearby.  I remember reading about the founding of this company, and being extremely impressed.  Visiting the store in hopes of finding a new go to location has been an open item.  Today I closed it with great success!  I love what I bought, the ideas that I got, and the beauty bug that I caught. 

Better still, I shared this adventure with my Mom, for whom I purchased a lipstick.  She was treated with care as I indulged in product.  This hectic week is done, and I am ready for a new one.           

Keeping it simple

This mantra is critical. Today, while walking the dog along the reservoir, I gratefully gazed at my surroundings. I paused when my eyes fixed on a bush bursting with colored berries, which I then captured for inclusion here.

Now, one might argue that simplicity would not include an iPhone. However, it is simple in its use. Also, it simply satisfies my obsession with stuff while I am on the go. I have with me my camera, listening and reading material, a flashlight, the ability to communicate as necessary, and endless additional stuff.

Thoughts on having it all

I have been consumed by this discussion.

For a time, I would say that I had it all and it vanished in one week. I had a husband, a house, and a BMW. I practiced law and spent time on Nantucket, Cape Cod, and in Maine.

Then, from one June Tuesday to the next, I sold my house, quit my job, went to court for my divorce, and moved in with my aging parents. I didn't even have a car, as my husband took the BMW.

My all was all gone.

Years later, I wonder if that was the all for me. Perhaps I had it all, mixed up that is. Currently, I have pretty much, and I don't attempt to decide whether it's all or not. It's my all right now- I have it and I give it.

I have a second husband, a small house, and a 9 year old car. I also have an 8 year old son and a job. I spend most of my time close to home. I have time and I make time, most significantly for my 92 year old mother and my running. Right now, this is my all and it's enough.

As a 48 year old woman who sometimes feels like I've had it all and done it all, I know that my all is not someone else's all. I feel fortunate that I can change what my all is and still have it.

These thoughts will continue, but right now it's time to stop thinking at all and do.

Back to basics again

Back to basics for me always means slowing down and keeping it simple.  Today I had nothing planned except month end work.  I was able to organize a few things, and get rid of a few more.  I hung out in the hammock with my Son.  We watched some of the Olympics trials and got motivated in so many ways - what a great group of athletes!  I read the New York Times and more of Peter Kaminsky's Culinary Intelligence.   

Most importantly, I took time for a run and to make a family dinner at home.  In the end, all is well.... 

Adjusting again

I am reminded again that adjusting is a key to successful living. When I don't adjust, I end up resentful and grumpy. When I adjust, I accept what is and get through the day as best as possible. Some things don't get done for sure, but overall I am more at ease.

I love routines and structure, but they too often don't work with my current schedule. I will do as best I can and give myself credit for that.

I accepted today for what it was. For that acceptance I am grateful.

Tonight is another chapter; let's see what gets "written."